I know he was just trying to make his job easier and get me in quick. He didn't say anything about it and never brought it up again throughout the process. My recruiter told me to lie at meps. So I lied and said I have never used drugs. She once told me a story. From the way your question is written, I will assume that you have enlisted in the Delayed Entry program and have not shipped to Basic Training. A guy sent an excellent CV as an IT specialist. The Army recruiter told me to lie years ago re: once having a broken arm, and having had asthma. My recruiter had me send a list of my top 10 enlisted MOS and he told me that they all were usually easy to get. What should I do? If you show interest in a job that doesn’t have a bonus, they’ll often leave them out of the conversation as to not change your mind. It's up to you to ask pointed, specific, no-nonsense questions, and expect direct answers. I immediately applied and received an email with 48 hours for a phone interview. The other one was a treatment for … … Looking back I hate him and the whole system. I'm in CA and only looking for roles in CA. Long story short, I lied at MEPS. I had atopic dermatitis (eczema) too, and i had to do UV light treatment for this and take prednisone for a week. Is any of this likely to come up? Recruiters Can’t Tell You Everything. I do not trust my recruiter at all anymore, not that I trusted them that much originally. The army recruiter I talked to told me that I shouldn't say anything because there's no possible way of me getting in. I really don't like when recruiters ask me for my current compensation. Most recruiters are hard-working, honest, and trustworthy, tasked to do one of the most difficult jobs in the military. Navy recruiter on March 06, 2013: Im a recruiter and i disagree with a lot of things you posted. It is my understanding that I can get waivers … Here’s why. Status quo is almost always better than no status at all. But now I am about a week away from my ship date and I am getting really nervous about this. They called him for an interview. For every tale behind a disgruntled servicemember’s “my recruiter lied to me” story, there’s often a degree of fault on the person telling the story, since they either didn’t as the right questions or “read the fine print,” as it were. Reply Wed 12 Mar, 2014 10:08 pm I have self harm scars from the one time I cut about 3 years ago, theyre very light but I do know this is an automatic PDQ. I had a few surgeries from 3-10 to repair a deformity in my nose. My allergies consist of allergy induced asthma (i dont have this anymore, last time i had it was when i was 15.) For the paperwork I already put no to every condition that I had in the past. Most recruiters are good, honest people and will not tell you to lie about your background, but there are always stories of those that encourage recruits to leave out negative medical history or drug use. Long story short I've been diagnosed with Anxiety/Add. Be very suspicious of any unclear, or vague answers. What if your recruiter told you it was okay to lie about drug use or other information that winds up on your SF-86? Heres the thing i hate lying to people, especially things ive done. He said that i should wait till after bootcamp to get married and then list my son as a dependent. Has anyone else been in this situation? If you don’t know this information, let the candidate know the next time you’ll speak with the hiring manager and follow up with both. Forums: Military, Self Mutilation Email this Topic • Print this Page . Edit: the TS background I went through was not for the military. I am going to meps monday and and my recruiter told me to lie about everything in my medical history: childhood depression medications (i was on meds for a short time but never diagnosed), er visits (stitches in my chin from dirtbike accident no further problems), and basically everything else. He was lazy and did want to get the info of addresses and wait, and he said the people at MEPS would give me a hard time about living in Germany. What's your opinion on this whole situation and should I join, or go for my chances of getting a … We don’t like it, but it happens (and we can’t tell you when it does). He or she may not volunteer information which may chase away a potential quota-maker. Should I go ahead and lie? My recruiter told me to say "no no no..and no" to every condition that the MEPS will try to get me booted out of the MEPS. I have a son, and my recruiter told me to lie about having him because it would be another 6-9 months till I am able to leave for boot camp. I am supposed to say no to the fact that I have taken anti depressants. But my recruiter told me to lie! I got in. I dont like to lie and i feel bad already and i … I told him Ohio, Missouri, and Germany. When I was young I broke both of my wrists & sprained my ankle. Short story long: The first time I talked to my recruiter over the phone he asked me if I had ever been on anti-depressants, I had been when I was 15 with counseling, and I told him yes. my nose has a pink patch on it and … Recruiters need to enlist people to keep their job and career. Never tell your recruiter that you have no other current job opportunities. but i'm so freaking worried about them finding anything. I don't think I should have to lie about little things like that, but I don't want to get DQ'd. He told me they will ask you if you been told to lie and continue to lie. After MEPS I told the recruiter about the situation … 06-19-2019, 12:40 AM Kthnry : … PLEASE read this -ive broken my collar bone when i was 3 no idea which one it was both feel perfectly fine -currently healing from shin splints i might've … I'm getting enlisted this summer and ive always heard the recruiters here to lie at MEPS just to get through it quicker. Thanks in advance:) And told me just to fill out "no" on the questionnaires. Plain and simple, my recruiter told me to lie at MEPS tomorrow to get myself in, to say NO to everything. Ahh, recruiters: the future soldier, sailor, airman, or Marine’s first official … i did just as my recruiter said and didn't tell them anything about my medical history. When a recruiter says: “I was passed your name by a mutual contact who asked to remain confidential…” However, military recruiting is a numbers game: Recruiters' careers are made and broken based on whether or not they can meet their monthly quotas (called "goals" in the recruiting world). Sometimes, we’re asked to look for things that have nothing to do with your professional qualifications. this is a 2 part question: 1. today i went to meps and enlisted in the national guard. It doesn't seem personalized and seems more like they're just throwing candidates at the roles they're working with. She thought he was another liar who copied someone else’s CV. I am not and never have been depressed. He/she didn't tell me a thing about it!" His exact words were, "if there's no record of it, they have no way of finding out." He couldn’t answer any questions and was very sullen. My recruiter told me to lie at MEPS about my allergies. What are the P-Days like at Navy boot camp? waffels . No=New opportunities Yes=Your enlistment stops. Told me I would be disqualified from enlisting at all. I am using meds right now, but I am willing to go off any and all medications in order to get into the army. I had to take daily steroids for this for a year. What the recruiter does get every month is special duty pay. While most recruiters will not lie to you, remember that the recruiter lives or dies by the number of people he/she can recruit. Turns out I didn't even need a waiver. If you just ask which job has the best bonus, they’ll look to the spreadsheet to see which job is needed at that moment. My recruiter had me send a list of my top 10 enlisted MOS and he told me that they all were usually easy to get. Know the law. My recruiter just didn't want to risk having to do more paperwork. When the time came to pick my job, less than 24 hours later, a different recruiter (my first recruiter went on sick leave) told me that only 18x was available. Will I ever be … I never actually took them, but it's on my record. Well, I ended up changing my mind … Do not lie to MEPS. Being young and stupid I followed that advice. Lately I’ve been troubled by a recruiter who appears to be encouraging me to lie about my qualifications to the companies he wants to submit me to. 1. 3. The original poster wrote: I enlisted in 2010, I had smoked marijuana twice in 2007, but was told by a current Air Force personnel to not disclose this information. However, when you get caught in your lies, if you think that dishonest recruiter (the one who told you to lie) is going to stand up and say, "Yes, I told him to lie, it's all my fault," then you'd better get your head examined. If they ask you which other companies you're talking with, … I’ve been told that a certain team has too many males, and they need to hire two women before we show them any more men. My recruiter told me to say no to everything. I told my recruiter about two things, and he told me not to mention either of them. A recruiter lie by silence is still a lie. But what about the recruiter who lies or asks you to lie? I was honest with the doctors anyway. So a while back I was going to enlist in the National Guard, and when I was going through the enlistment process, the recruiter told me to lie about my drug use because it would cause problems for me down the road. And when they ask for my insurance, just say I don't know it. I was talking to my recruit and he asked me where I have lived. He wanted addresses and told me to not mention living anywhere but my current address. Recruiters don’t or at least shouldn’t lie about bonuses because they’re hard numbers on paper. My recruiter told me to lie about my medical history. I do not believe in lying. He/she is going to say, "Nope. My recruiter told me to lie at meps. Recruiter told me to lie at MEPS? You are the one who is going to suffer the consequences of your choice to commit a … When the time came to pick my job, less than 24 hours later, a different recruiter (my first recruiter went on sick leave) told me that only 18x was available. As a former military recruiter, I can tell you that your recruiter wants you to lie, because admitting to depression might disqualify you. 5. I am currently going through the enlistment process for the National Guard and my recruiter asked me if I had any medical problems, I listed them to him and he told me to answer "NO" for each of the questions and told me that it is something that you have to do to get through MEPS otherwise I will be disqualified immediately. My recruiter said to lie through my teeth and the only way they can prove it is self mutilation is if I admit it … I also reallyyyyyy don't like it when it seems like they're reading off a script. The 11 Biggest Lies Recruiters Tell, According To The Internet. Something like $425. Nothing major but it still has me worried. This pay isn't for meeting quota, it's because recruiting is hard and a recruiter needs to work a lot of hours. One was ADD Medication that I took when I was in 7th grade, so this was over 5 years ago. 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